一個舊的結束常常會伴隨著一個新的開始.一次偶然的相遇.兩顆心的碰撞.火花很美麗.但是短暫的.從片頭的配樂開始,我就聞到一股強烈的幸福的味道...到結尾配樂的高潮部分.這種味道充斥著我整個嗅覺器官.
片中這樣的愛只可能發(fā)生在心志成熟的人身上.事業(yè)穩(wěn)定的他們在自己的崗位上都算或小或大的成功者,卻在感情這場戰(zhàn)役中輸給了自己,輸給了感情.于是他們決定利用假期來讓自己體驗一次全新的生活,全新的環(huán)境."雖然Amanda真的不是來這個小鎮(zhèn)找愛情的.但是愛情卻找上了她."旁白中的這句話我印象很深.她的愛情發(fā)生的很浪漫.Iris是個好女人.賢良淑德.善解人意.用情專一.卻用錯了人...可憐的她遇到了同樣可憐的他.同是天涯淪落人相逢何必曾相識.
看這個片子讓我對愛有了新的看法.也許你會認為:大哥,你醒醒吧.這只是部電影.嗯沒錯!的確只是虛構出來的完美.片中每個人的出現(xiàn)都有他的作用.沒有"廢人".但畢竟電影的情節(jié)構思都是來源于生活,當然也高于生活的.就像我們心中的理想.我不得不再次重復著默念起我的堅持:有信念總是好的.有期待才會有樂趣.生活不要消極的復制每一天.也許我們不會像片中兩對男女那樣幸運能在一個假期中遇到自己的唯一.但你不該對自己失望.對生活失望.上帝總會眷顧到你的.只是他老人家就一個人忙不過來.總要有個先后次序的.呵.幸福屬于我們每一個熱愛生活的人.All you need is just love!Face to Faith!Let's go!
PS:某些對感情嚴重消極的朋友強烈推薦你看此片,也許不會幫到你什么實際問題.但至少你該看看這個好故事.理想也不過如此.就是因為我們在小時候看到某些成功者的表率,才會讓我們將來想成為怎樣怎樣的人.感情也是一樣.有期待總是好的:)
愿天下有情人終成眷屬...

這段時間盡量看一些不用動腦子的電影。戀愛假期很溫暖。

不搭界的兩國四人，奇妙的交換空間，彼此交錯而未必有終局。戀愛假期不會讓你期待童話收尾，只告訴你至少今天你還可以抓得住。

溫暖的假期，導演用了點可愛的伎倆。于是片子里就有了很多很奇妙的好萊塢華麗小點心?；舴蚵瑵M墻的碟，加上很多別人說了我不知道的，這算是部很好看小料點綴夠足的商業(yè)電影。不用動太多腦子，很溫暖就像溫絲萊特的笑容。像結局一樣，一切都可以緩期執(zhí)行。


笑容收人的英國花樣美男裘德洛驚艷的超級童話奶爸生活，迷人的的傻大姐卡梅隆迪亞茲少有的穿這么嚴肅，還穿著純情的讓人感慨萬分的白色小內衣。溫絲萊特向來溫潤如玉，她好像知性版的莫妮卡貝魯奇。啊還有一個杰克布萊克，什么時候看著他都高興，聽說這人神叨異常也就好玩異常。

好喜歡樣板間裘德洛在這部電影里的樣子，帥成那樣的單身奶爸總是很討姑娘愛不釋手的喜歡。他和卡梅隆的臉盤格格不入。他們本身就不搭界。兩對四角，明顯的不同國籍，就這樣互相交集，童話了一把?？仿〉拇蠓孔诱嫫粒瑴亟z萊特的小屋溫暖的光亮讓人一下變得柔軟。

關于卡梅隆。從小，十歲前吧，那時候就喜歡她的模樣，笑容甜美金黃頭發(fā)，我好友的婚禮里面的滿分女友。家里現(xiàn)在存著成捆的老大眾電影，是我小時候最愛之一，那上面常常有她修長的樣子。他是相當混的混血。我記得大概提到了八個國家。怪不得這樣靈透好看長腿大眼。后來長大了一些，那時候傻瓜一樣刻意喜歡傳說中有深度電影。很好笑。然后自然而然覺得此女美的膚淺呀，現(xiàn)在我發(fā)覺我還是很喜歡她，雖然她明顯的老態(tài)卻仍然甜美傻氣的可恥。

看戀愛假期只需要放輕松。其實也不用糾結里面的大小點綴也可以很滿足。

就像結局，不用擔心什么時候該離開。管它呢。今天，我們很快樂。不要強迫自己想明天的事。偶爾，這樣寵溺自己。

溫絲萊特住的深閨小屋，google真的可以找到。

有些人看一眼就知道是有故事的人。

我喜歡一個人，一定是從他的開場白開始喜歡。同樣，討厭一個人，也一定是因為那個開場白。這真的是個三秒鐘的世界。三秒鐘里，你和有的人馬上有坐下一聊的沖動，當然也有人讓你轉身就想離開。

我和很多人有過第一個三秒鐘。和小艾雅的三秒鐘里，隔著5米遠，她尋找的眼睛、微笑、以及毫不猶豫地擁抱讓我馬上知道，我們是同個頻道的人。

微笑，無疑是很重要的判斷標準。笑的溫暖的男人，最令人無法抵擋。有著冷漠父親的女子，此生都難以抗拒與溫暖相關的一切人和事。比如牽手，比如擁抱。手、懷抱也和每張臉孔一樣，是那么那么的不同。你對牽手擁抱的直覺，可以比眼睛能告訴你更多。

于是這個世界才有了那么多關于牽手的故事，關于擁抱的故事，關于笑容的故事。組合起來，會變成一見如故、一見鐘情、一見傾心。然后有了那句，見到他的第一眼，似曾相識，仿若已經認識了好幾生。

天堂有時候一點都不遠。

故事里觸摸到天堂的契機，都只需要那么一點點時間。就像《戀愛假期》里，只需要打開電腦，google一下，點鼠標，剛剛經歷失戀的兩個女人，人生從那秒開始不一樣。

住在洛杉磯的Amanda和住在倫敦附近的Iris，一個忘記如何戀愛的女強人，一個與前男友糾纏數(shù)年的軟弱女才子。她們下決心要丟掉慘淡的人生，逃開身邊的一切。于是，在24小時候內互換了房子。

Amanda就這樣從暖風洋溢的洛杉磯到了冰天雪地的英國小鎮(zhèn)。半夜有人敲門，打開門，mr right就在眼前，這有些酒氣的英俊男子是God送來的圣誕禮物。Iris就這樣從小農莊住進了豪宅，門鈴響，漂亮的奧迪跑車里是才華橫溢的電影作曲家。

完美的三秒鐘，盡管那么俗套，卻還是平凡女子的熱愛的橋段。我看他們親吻，做愛，流淚，奔跑，約定，承諾，皆大歡喜。內心愉悅。我們需要這樣的故事哄著自己，不然人生實在會更加殘忍。因此，我才拒絕看一切有關殘忍、血腥、暴力的故事。假如我無意路過悲劇的門口，我一定是個會克制住好奇心，快點跑遠的小孩。

這世界絕對沒有越受傷越勇敢的生物，沒有露水的玫瑰沒有香氣，人人需要療傷?！稇賽奂倨凇愤@樣典型的好萊塢應景愛情片，是屬于療傷系的。和《麻雀變鳳凰》一樣，適合午夜十分，寂寞的端著水杯，看著別人的愛情落淚，告訴自己，明天一定可以更好的。

這樣的療傷，多么適合善良不忍心去打擾別人的乖孩子。她們是善解人意又溫潤良善的，睡不著也只會在床上默默的烙餅。

要感謝那些編織故事的人。謝謝那些開場白，謝謝那些擁抱，謝謝那些牽手，謝謝那些皆大歡喜，謝謝他們慰藉了多少孤單而良善的靈魂。

一直很喜歡Kate Winslet 一個演技派 非常灑脫自然的女人！
也很喜歡Jude Law 因為他確實太帥了~

喜歡這部電影因為很喜歡它的劇本
所以在這一起share一下 經典的臺詞

其實開篇那段寫的太美了 尤其是Kate來念
I have found almost everything ever written about love...to be true.
Shakespeare said,"Journeys end in lovers meeting."
What an extraordinary thought.
Personally, I have not experienced anything remotely close to that...but I'm more than willing to believe
Shakespeare had.
I suppose I think about love more than anyone really should.
I'm constantly amazed by its sheer power to alter and define our lives.
It was Shakespeare who also said,"Love is blind."
Now, that is something I know to be true.

For some, quite inexplicably...Love fades.
For others...Love is simply lost.
But then, of course,love can also be found.
Even if just for the night.
And then there's another kind of love.
The cruelest kind.
The one that almost kills its victims.
It's called unrequited love.
Of that, I am an expert..
Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other.
But what about the rest of us?What about our stories?
Those of us who fall in love alone.
We are the victims of the one-sided affair.
We are the cursed of the loved ones.
We are the unloved ones.
The walking wounded.
The handicapped without the advantage of a great parking space.
Yes, you are looking at one such individual.
And I have willingly loved...that man for over three miserable years.
The absolute worst years of my life.
The worst Christmases,the worst birthdays.
New Year's Eves brought in by tears and Valium(安定).
These years I've been in love have been the darkest days of my life...all because I'm cursed by being
in love with a man who does not...and will not love me back.
Oh, God, just the sight of him.
Heart. pounding, throat thickening,absolutely can't swallow.
All the usual symptoms.

Iris約Arthur一起吃晚飯 Arthur說的話是那么的通透
As a matter of fact, he is A huge schmuck.
How did you know?He let you go.
This is not a hard one to figure out.
Iris, in the movies we have leading ladies...and we have the best friend.
You, I can tell, are a leading lady.But for some reason,you're behaving like the best friend.
You're so right.
You're supposed to be the leading lady of your own life, for God's sake.
Arthur, l've been going to a therapist for three years.And she's never explained anything to me that well.

Iris安慰Miles那段對話也十分的睿智經典
I know it's hard to believe people when they say, "l know how you feel."
But I actually know how you feel.
（You see...I was...seeing someone back in London.
We worked for the same newspaper.And then I found out that he was also seeing this other girl, Sarah...from the Circulation Department
on the 19th floor.It turned out that he wasn't in love with me like I thought.）
What l'm trying to say is...I understand feeling as small and as insignificant...as humanly possible.
How it can actually ache in places that you didn't know you had inside you.
It doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get...
or gyms you join...
or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with girlfriends.
You still go to bed every night going over every detail...and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood.
And how in the hell, for that brief moment...you could think that you were that happy?
And sometimes you can even convince yourself...that he'll see the light and show up at your door.
And after all that...however long "all that" may be...you'll go somewhere new.
And you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again.
And little pieces of your soul will finally come back.
And all that fuzzy stuff...those years of your life that you wasted...
that will eventually begin to fade.
...

part 1 　
IRIS: I have found aImost everything
　　ever written about Iove to be true.
　　我發(fā)現(xiàn)所有關于愛情的描述都是真的
　　Shakespeare said, "Journeys end in Iovers meeting."莎士比亞曾說“戀人總在旅程的終點相會”
　　Oh, what an extraordinary thought!
　　真浪漫的想法
　　PersonaIIy, I have not experienced
　　anything remoteIy cIose to that,
　　雖然我從來沒有過這種經驗
　　but I'm more than wiIIing
　　to beIieve Shakespeare had.
　　但是我相信莎翁有過
　　I suppose I think about Iove
　　more than anyone reaIIy shouId.
　　我對愛情一向比別人想得更多
　　I'm constantIy amazed by its sheer power
　　to aIter and define our Iives.
　　也深切地相信愛情能改變人生
　　It was Shakespeare who aIso said,
　　"Love is bIind."莎士比亞也說：“愛情是盲目的”
　　Now that is something I know to be true.
　　這一點我肯定是真的
　　For some, quite inexpIicabIy, Iove fades.
　　不知道為什么，對某些人來說
　　愛情是漸漸消逝
　　For others, Iove is simpIy Iost.
　　其他人則是完全失去愛情
　　But then, of course, Iove can aIso be found,
　　但是有些人能夠輕易找到愛情
　　even if just for the night.
　　就算只是一夜情
　　And then there's another kind of Iove,
　　當然還有另一種愛情
　　the crueIIest kind,
　　最殘酷的那一種
　　the one that aImost kiIIs its victims.
　　足以讓人痛不欲生
　　It's caIIed unrequited Iove.那就是單戀
　　Of that, I am an expert.我就是這方面的專家
　　Most Iove stories are about peopIe
　　who faII in Iove with each other,
　　愛情故事通常講的是兩個人相愛
　　but what about the rest of us?
　　但是像我們這種人呢？
　　What about our stories,
　　我們的故事很少被提起
　　those of us who faII in Iove aIone?
　　孤獨地墜入愛河
　　We are the victims of the one-sided affair.
　　我們是單戀的苦主
　　We are the cursed of the Ioved ones.
　　也是受詛咒的受害者
　　We are the unIoved ones,
　　更是沒人疼沒人愛的可憐蟲
　　the waIking wounded,
　　the handicapped without the advantage
　　of a great parking space.
　　就像找不到停車位的殘障人士
　　Yes, you are Iooking at one such individuaI
　　像我這樣的一個女子
　　and I have wiIIingIy Ioved that man
　　for over three miserabIe years,
　　我死心塌地單戀那個男人
　　過了三年的痛苦人生
　　the absoIute worst years of my Iife.
　　我這一生最慘痛的日子
　　The worst Christmases, the worst birthdays,
　　耶誕節(jié)很難熬、過生日沒人陪
　　New Year's Eves brought in by tears and VaIium.
　　除夕只能放聲大哭、狂吞鎮(zhèn)靜劑
　　These years that I've been in Iove have been the darkest days of my Iife,
　　身陷在黑暗的枷鎖中
　　aII because I've been cursed by being in Iove with a man
　　因為我無可救藥的愛上一個男人
　　who does not and wiII not Iove me back.
　　卻沒得到相同的回報
　　Oh, God, just the sight of him.
　　我光是看到他
　　Heart pounding, throat thickening,
　　absoIuteIy can't swaIIow.
　　心臟就狂跳、喉嚨干到無法吞咽
　　AII the usuaI symptoms.
　　全都是單相思的癥狀

part 2

    -Why do l always fall for the bad girl?
　　-You didn't know she was a bad girl.
　　我怎么老是愛錯人？
　　你不知道她這么糟
　　l knew she wasn't good.
　　我知道她不是好東西
　　Do you have anything a little bit stronger?
　　你有更烈一點的飲料嗎？
　　Thank you. Let me rephrase this.
　　謝謝你，我這么說好了
　　Why am l attracted to a person
　　l know isn't good?
　　為什么我老是愛錯人？
　　l happen to know the answer to this.
　　Because you're hoping you're wrong,
　　我剛好知道答案
　　因為你祈求上蒼是自己弄錯了
　　and every time she does something
　　that tells you she's no good, you ignore it,
　　她對你壞，你故意忽視
　　and every time she comes through
　　and surprises you, she wins you over
　　她對你好，你就完全的死心塌地
　　and you lose that argument with yourself
　　that she's not for you.
　　完全沒想到其實是她不適合你

part 3

      I understand feeling as small
　　and as insignificant as humanly possible,
　　我了解那種渺小又微不足道的感受
　　and how it can actually ache in places
　　that you didn't know you had inside you,
　　就算遍體鱗傷也要故作堅強
　　and it doesn't matter
　　how many new haircuts you get
　　不管換了幾個新發(fā)型
　　or gyms you join or how many glasses of
　　chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends,
　　或是去健身或是和姊妹淘喝白酒
　　you still go to bed every night
　　going over every detail,
　　日日夜夜都仍在回想著每個細節(jié)
　　and wonder what you did wrong
　　or how you could have misunderstood.
　　納悶自己到底哪里錯了，哪里誤解了
　　And how in the hell, for that brief moment,
　　you could think that you were that happy?
　　最后自問怎么會把短暫的歡愉
　　錯當成永久的快樂
　　And sometimes you can even
　　convince yourself that he'll see the light
　　有時候會說服自己
　　and show up at your door.
　　他會想清楚回來的
　　(SlGHS)
　　And after all that,
　　however long all that may be,
　　經歷過這一切后
　　you'll go somewhere new
　　人還是會重新開始
　　and you'll meet people
　　who make you feel worthwhile again,
　　再遇到值得付出的人
　　and little pieces of your soul
　　will finally come back.
　　然后一點一點地重拾自信
　　And all that fuzzy stuff,
　　而那些模糊的回憶
　　those years of your life that you wasted,
　　那么多年浪費掉的人生
　　that will eventually begin to fade.
　　終究會開始消逝