it's more a story about PFLAG than a lesbian puppy love story.

i really like Mrs. Wascott ,and Jane's mother is played by "Samatha" as in Sex and the City ?
BTW, Taylor is quite my type...


some fleeting pieces of my mind:

1)usually, u won't and can't die after ur bubbly first love has been dashed.but, u are changed, forever.
there is no way back.u r a different person ---which, is not necessarily a bad thing.

2)coming to terms with urself & what is true is the first step 4 everyone who loves differently.
it's damn hard , and yes, it takes time -- maybe a lot ,if u shall take one step forward then one back..
that's totally normal.still, u've got to do it.what matters is u must force ur true self into a corner,stare it down and really see ur own true color.then, no matter what ,try,try as if ur very life is hanging uopn it, to Accept ,instead of frantically painting it "normal".

3)4 oneself, ackowledge -- accept -- annouce/conceal
the bottom line for me is u can accept it urself.as to whether or not to come out, it is up to u.
and think twice before u do.it's not cowardice but prudence.
and in the meantime, better urself in any and every way.


4) when u do decide to come out, say,firstly and most importantly, to ur parents, be wise about the timing if u've got choice over it.
independence is a must, both financially and psychologically.

5) unless u r 100% sure, cut-and-dried sort of gay, in the current Chinese society, better straighten up , if u can.

however, it's always worth for a true love, which happens only once-in-a-lifetime.(and i'm talking about u,if u happen to see it, my Magpie~)


6)love ur parents, no matter what.
be nice to them.
but in my dictionary, fidel piety isn't synonymous with brainless obedience.
i'll try and fight for what i see as my happiness,with both sense & sensibility.

7) i never meant to hurt those two, my own and ur mom.
sorry.but sorry doesn't mean i won't do it again.

4 U , as long as u allow me to , a thousand times over.

well,I guess this is really hard for gay people to tell the truth to those they love the best.We just don't want to hurt them.When they seem to get hurt because of what we do or who we are,we escape,we run away from the truth and the feeling we keep so deeply in our heart.
Once I talked to my dad about gay issue and he thought that they do nothing but blowjob and anal sex.what could I say to him then?He understands nothing about being gay and this is probably the last thing in the whole world he wants to know of.
We just can't be understood.
It's the saddest thing in the world.

16歲，按照東方或西方的法律，已屬成年人的范疇，那意味者他或者她的生理和心理可能已經(jīng)達(dá)到比較成熟的階段，在這里我用“可能”這個詞，是因為他或她的父母也許會覺得這還是個太年輕的年紀(jì)，年青到還沒經(jīng)歷過花花世界的誘惑與挫折，而一個人的成熟往往是要付出代價的，這也是為什么父母們并不十分肯定他們已經(jīng)成熟。
《情系我心》講述的是一個16歲的女孩Jane的情感自我認(rèn)知過程，在學(xué)校她遇到了改變她一生的女孩Talyor。說改變她一生，或許不太準(zhǔn)確，因為Talyor的出現(xiàn)只是讓她得以認(rèn)知自我的一個誘因而已，Jane愛上了Talyor，兩人親吻的一幕被處于青少年叛逆期的弟弟窺視到，并惡作劇般的宣揚(yáng)出去，于是，父母的疑問接踵而來。正如其他父母一樣，他們把這一“荒唐”的行為歸結(jié)于孩子的好奇。在經(jīng)歷了迷惑、彷徨、恐懼、擔(dān)憂、自我否定等一系列心理過程后，她向父母出柜了，換來的是父母的憤怒和失望。出于母愛的天性，她的媽媽開始“勸說”Jane，希望以此來糾正她的“錯誤行為”。當(dāng)然，最初的控制措施較為強(qiáng)烈，24小時的監(jiān)護(hù)，并且禁止Jane出門。但這些都在青春期的叛逆情緒下土崩瓦解，父母甚至打算把她送到寄讀學(xué)校，然而這一切卻因為Jane的班主任Ms scotte的秘密峰回路轉(zhuǎn)。無疑，編劇在此處給整個故事增添了看似無關(guān)緊要，實則是力挽狂瀾的一筆，正是因為Scotte頂著可能被學(xué)校董事會開除且身敗名裂的危險去勸說Jane的父母，才終于讓Jane的父母在憤怒和激動的情緒中平靜下來，并且嘗試去了解女兒的內(nèi)心世界。故事情節(jié)到了這里，主線似乎在發(fā)生轉(zhuǎn)變，從最初女兒彷徨、糾結(jié)的情緒，改弦更張，成功轉(zhuǎn)移到了母親情感的掙扎，整個過渡沒有一絲矯揉造作。從這點看來，les情結(jié)在本片只是一個引子，劇情的重點是兩個人情感掙扎的歷程。
劇中，編者對父親和弟弟的潤色較少，但無疑是不可或缺的，觀眾甚至?xí)拹篔ane的那個眼中無人，自以為是的弟弟，姐弟倆的關(guān)系是淡漠甚至是相互敵對的。當(dāng)Jane把特意買給弟弟的冰淇淋遞到他手里的時候，“其實那是個惡作劇，對吧？”這句簡單的臺詞，融化了之前凝結(jié)在觀眾心中的那層堅冰，從而使整個人物形象發(fā)生逆轉(zhuǎn)，其實他還只是個淘氣的孩子，他前面留給觀眾所有的印象都被顛覆，同時，也暗示Jane的逐漸成長，16歲或許真的是一個分水嶺。
影片的結(jié)局，正如片名一般，每個人都應(yīng)該遵從自己內(nèi)心的情感